"I now feel that I have a much deeper understanding of what it means to be a man in a relationship and how to make dating a beautiful experience."
Justin M.
New York, NY
Her Sanctuary
2505 SE 11th Avenue Suite 255 (second floor)
Portland, OR 97202
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84% of singles made at least one connection.
40% of attendees were returning singles.
Singles averaged 4.3 matches each.
Match results were emailed within 17 hours.
Singles averaged 4.3 matches each, averaging 4.3 matches each.
Results published
April 19, 2026 at 7:26pm
by Emerald May
Keep exploring Tantra Speed Date:
Emerald May (she/her) is an erotic pioneer, intimacy & breathwork coach, devoted to guiding people into the safety and expansiveness of their transformative pleasure. With a warm, grounded, and light-hearted presence, she invites individuals and partners of all genders to explore their most embodied expression. She holds heart-centered space for those committed to honoring their authentic presence with courage and integrity.
94.09% of attendees make at least one connection.
In fact, we're so confident you'll make at least one connection that if the sparks don't fly for you, then your next ticket is on us!
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Every Tantra Speed Date is a guided experience designed to help singles connect beyond small talk. Instead of awkward conversations, you’ll share a series of fun, structured connection exercises that make it easy to relax, be yourself, and discover real chemistry.
Whether you’re looking for love, new friends, or simply a different way to meet people, every event is designed to create meaningful first dates in a warm, welcoming environment.
"I now feel that I have a much deeper understanding of what it means to be a man in a relationship and how to make dating a beautiful experience."
New York, NY
"I met the love of my life through TSD and have been opened to the wonderful healing powers of Tantra. I was hesitant to go that night but I am SO glad I did."
Denver, CO
"In the quest for love and connection in San Francisco's notoriously challenging dating world, the ceremony is a bold and worthy risk."
"I was a bit skeptical of this event. It's hard to feel connected nowadays... but there was so much love I experienced in one night. My life has changed and I can tell love is in my future!"
Denver, CO
"Your work will revolutionize the way men and women relate to each other at a time when it's needed most in our society, bringing balance to the feminine and masculine."
Los Angeles, CA
"I saw plenty of connections being made... men and women gazing at each other, laughing, and thanking each other..."
"This isn't your average dating event. You leave more connected with yourself and make true connections with others through the different stations/exercises."
New York, NY
"I was a little uncomfortable and nervous but there was nothing to fear! The facilitator did an excellent job holding the space and I felt safe, comfortable, and inspired throughout."
Los Angeles, CA
"An opportunity to meet someone face-to-face in an honest environment without the endless messaging, game-playing and faux confidence. Dating without the booze and the bullshit."
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